Being
Pregnant Is Not A Hurdle To Enjoy A Little Romance
by Sara Jameson
Most of the time pregnant women are afraid to have a little romance.
Probably they are afraid something could happen to their baby. Well,
that's wrong. It is important that you do not ignore your own needs
or those of your spouse's during pregnancy. Unless your doctor has
warned you otherwise, it is generally safe to have intercourse while
pregnant. You will not hurt the baby, nor will your hubby crush
it by lying atop you.
You probably have a big belly, and difficult to
move your body, but being loved is something that will not go away
from you. You still want to taste the love from your husband. You
can still initiate a sexy cuddle or some fooling around with your
spouse/partner. Remember, after the baby comes, you will both be
exhausted from 3 a.m. feedings and long days, filled with diaper
changes.
Why do you need to continue having a little romance
although you're pregnant? You may not feel like being sexual, but
it is at least important to cuddle or fool around with your husband,
so that he still knows he matters to you. You probably will not
have sex as much; over time, this can lead to the relationship deteriorating.
You do not want this to happen, especially when you can prevent
it by remaining attentive to your hubby. Relationships always take
work, but a baby does complicate things, so make sure you do not
quit just because the going gets tough.
Make the effort now to buy a sexy gown or to do
something romantic for your spouse, and make sure that even after
the baby comes, you make time to remind your hubby that you still
love him and find him attractive. Whether or not you lose the baby
weight right away, still cuddle with your spouse and make love when
you both feel like it. Your husband will not care if you are a little
heavy because he will just be glad you two are fooling around.
It is also good for your self-esteem to be sexual.
And it releases stress! So, make time for romance, no matter how
tired or fat you feel. Rest assured, your husband still thinks you
are beautiful and sexy.
Never feel ashamed to ask your hubby or partner
for little romance when you need it. Enjoy it while you can!
About the Author
Sara Jameson writes her experiences in "The Very Happy Pregnancy:
Avoiding Stress and Depression." Read her secrets and truths
about having a happy, healthy pregnancy in http://www.pregnancy-weekly.info
and http://www.pregnancy-week.info
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