Your belly is huge, your due date has passed, and yet little Susie
or Johnny has shown no interest in moving out of his or her cozy
home. Your due date is calculated by counting forward 280 days from
the start of your last menstrual period. Your due date is only an
estimate of when your baby should come and is often off by a number
of days. It is very common to deliver past your due date particularly
if you are a first time mom. Knowing that it is common provides
little comfort when you are the one overdue. Below are our best
tips for surviving an overdue pregnancy.
1. Talk to your doctor.
Women have varying opinions
on labor and childbirth. Some prefer a natural, wait and see approach,
while others are very anxious and eagerly interested in induction.
In our mother's generation it was not uncommon to deliver at 42
or even 43 weeks. Presently many doctors will induce at 40 or 41
weeks if your cervix is favorable. If you would prefer the wait
and see approach, or your cervix is unfavorable for induction, your
doctor or midwife will monitor you and baby closely. You will likely
have a non stress test or biophysical profile done once or even
twice a week if you are overdue. By 42 weeks your doctor will most
likely choose to induce regardless of whether you cervix is favorable
or not.
2. Get lots of rest.
The last month of pregnancy
is exhausting. You may not be sleeping well due to discomfort and
anxiety about your approaching labor. Remember to keep taking your
prenatal vitamins and rest as much as you can. Lack of sleep and
fatigue can war on your mood. Use a body pillow at night to help
you sleep. Take an afternoon nap if you are not sleeping well or
just rest with you feet up if sleep is not possible.
3. Finish up preparations
for baby.
Now is a good time to
finish up those last minute things you need for baby. You may have
packed your hospital bag weeks earlier and finished the nursery
what seems like ages ago, so here are a few ideas you might not
have thought of to keep yourself busy. Install your car seat and
have it checked for safety. Many hospitals and insurance companies
will do car seat safety checks. Purchase a lullaby CD and set up
a rocking chair nearby to rock your baby to sleep. Lastly, if you
haven't already now is a good time to buy your husband or partner
to bring to work after baby's birth. It's a little old fashioned,
but hey some men still do it.
4. Try relaxation and
meditation.
If you've never done
relaxation exercises or meditation this probably sounds a bit corny,
but it can't hurt to try it. Purchase a CD if you don't have one
already with relaxing music or sounds from the rainforest or beach.
Try slow deep breaths relaxing your muscles one at a time. Alternatively,
you can purchase a CD or video that gives specific instructions
on relaxation exercises. Now would also be a good time to practice
relaxation and breathing exercises form your child birth class.
5. Try natural labor
inducers.
There are a few things
you can try to induce labor naturally. Foods such as pineapple and
eggplant have been suggested as labor inducers. Cooked in a yummy
recipe, it's certainly worth a shot. Cinnamon tea made from cinnamon
sticks steeped in hot water is another thing you can try. Walking
is something else you can try. The verdict is still out as to whether
walking actually helps, but a little exercise is good for the body
and soul regardless of effectiveness in inducing labor. There are
many other tips, tricks, and old wives tales you can try naturally
induce labor. Check with your doctor or midwife before trying anything
to naturally induce labor.
6. Check fetal movements.
It is very important
when you are overdue to keep a close eye on fetal movements. There
are variations on how to keep track of fetal kick counts, so talk
to your doctor about how to track and monitor your baby's movements.
If you notice a decrease or change in your baby's activity call
your doctor.
7. Observe for signs
of labor.
For some women keeping
track of signs of labor will bring comfort and others it is plain
out discouraging. As you pregnancy comes to an end your body will
show sings or readiness for labor. Increasing Braxton Hicks contractions,
pelvic achiness, backache, and increasing vaginal secretions are
all early signs or labor. Early labor symptoms can begin weeks before
labor, but all these signs are reassuring that your body is indeed
getting ready for birth.
8. Keep busy.
Keeping busy will help
keep your mind off of things. Here are a few suggestions to keep
yourself busy. Take this time to freeze up a few meals for after
baby's birth. This will allow you a little extra time and rest when
baby is home. Make a belly cast of your pregnant tummy to commemorate
your pregnancy. Start a scrapbook album for your baby. You can include
mementos from your pregnancy and prepare pages for after baby's
birth. Knitting, crocheting, or other hobbies can also be distracting.
9. Ask for help.
If you are having a hard
time physically or emotionally ask for support from your family,
friends, or health care provider. You may be shouting from the inside,
but unless you tell someone they may not know how you feel. If you
are having feelings of anxiety or depression talk to your doctor.
10. Do something nice
for yourself.
A massage, manicure,
or trip to the hair salon are all good ideas to treat yourself at
the end of pregnancy. If you can't convince baby to come out and
play, at least mommy should have a good time.