IVF
- Is It For You?
by Barry Hooper
The decision to undertake IVF Fertility treatment is not one which
anyone would undertake lightly. But there is no standard way of
deciding whether this is the right treatment for you. There are
general issues which are of concern to all prospective IVT patients.
The most obvious being that the treatment may not be successful.
It could also be that in vitro fertilization could be considered
an unaffordable option. Another possible stumbling block is that
the techniques used may be incompatible with a couple's moral or
religious beliefs. All of these concerns are highly valid, and completely
understandable.
Coming to the decision of opting for IVF treatment
can be daunting. Reliable information can be difficult to find and
sometimes difficult to understand. Perhaps it would be helpful for
people trying to make this decision to first consider ethical, moral
and religious value systems. By its very nature, IVF can raise some
complicated and unusual issues. Emerging views and opinions must
then be fully discussed with your life partner, as it is crucial
that you both agree on how best to enlarge or create your family.
Try to ensure that neither you nor your partner ever feels under
pressure to conform to a certain treatment.
When you have reached this point, next arises the
issue of getting quality infertility treatment, if that is your
wish. The management of infertility can be an extremely complicated
and lengthy process. The American Society for Reproductive Medicine
has set guidelines for providers of infertility services, with three
levels of care. Some patients may decide to have diagnostic tests
and some treatment by providers with only basic capabilities. There
is nothing wrong with this, assuming that you are referred to more
experienced care providers when the guidelines indicate.
Most of the IVF program providers give very good
care, but you would be wise to make sure that the IVF clinic you
select belongs to the Society for Assisted Reproductive Technology
(SART). This will ensure that you are comfortable with the quality
of lab work and medical care.
Probably during your first visit, you will be asked
to complete an in depth medical evaluation. You should also check
out alternative treatments other than IVF from this clinic, to ensure
you fully explore all your options. Once this stage is complete,
decide upon a plan of action, and some kind of timescale. Figure
out your fiscal options, and put plans into place. You will also
need to consider how your present lifestyle will need to adapt to
incorporate your chosen way of creating or starting, a family.
While trawling the web for information, you will
come across many people offering advice. Several suggest analytical
ways of deciding whether IVF is for you, or not. One actually suggests
that the costs be analyzed in detail. While this certainly is a
major consideration for most couples, and definitely an issue which
must be addressed as soon as IVF is decided upon. Surely it must
be extremely difficult to step back from such a highly emotive issue
and analyze it? It is surely not possible to quantify the anguish
a childless couple feels at not being able to produce a child through
regular methods, or the longing such a loss creates. But to some
degree, it is prudent to put aside the emotional side of IVF and
try to apply logic. And although this sounds impossible, it may
be highly productive for you, long term.
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